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Tuesday, November 20, 2007
Why do I always have to take the backseat?
After I revealed to Russell all the nasty things that his jerk bestfriend told me a couple of years ago, Russell just doesn't seem to care. As if I am not hurt. As if I was not offended. As if it didn't matter tome.
Why do I have to be the one to adjust? Why is it I should always be the one who should understand?
I feel very unsupported and.....neglected.

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posted by ruther @ 3:42 PM  
5 Comments:
  • At 11/21/2007 5:03 PM, Anonymous Gladys said…

    Hi sis,

    Nagulat naman ako sa post mo. Hmmm, ganyan yata ang mga lalaki sis, minsan hindi sensitibo sa ating nararamdaman.

    O baka din napaisip siya pero ayaw lang niyang magbigay ng reaction kaagad..baka kinausap na niya bestfriend niya about that without u knowing it. Ganyan kasi ang mga lalaki (as far as I know and my experience), di masyadong sensitibo.

    Wag mo lang masamain ha, ikakasal pa naman kayo.. Eh sa susunod kung ganyan pa rin gagawin niya, voice out ur opinion na..that u needed support at hindi yung babalewalain ka lang.

    Sana nakatulong ako konti..nang mapaglubag ko naman ang loob mo :).

     
  • At 11/21/2007 10:17 PM, Blogger Heidi said…

    Hi thet, I can't help but comment sa post mo because I sometimes feel the same way when I tell my husband something and expect him to react a certain way but he seems oblivious to the fact that I do... Just remember that guys have a different way of dealing with their emotions than us girls... besides you'd never know with them, sometimes they confront the offender without telling you... this happens to me so I know.

     
  • At 11/22/2007 12:16 PM, Blogger popcorn said…

    Hi Thet, I agree with both Gladys and Heidi. People (not just men) have different ways of showing how we feel. Some prefer to be aggressive and confront the other party, some prefer to do it privately while some would just rather keep quiet.

    Whatever kind of person Russell is, I'm sure that he heard you and feel your pain. It's so hard when there's conflict between the 2 special people in his life. You're hurt because you feel that you always have to take second place when you should've been first because you're the gf/wife... on the other hand, he's probably been bestfriends with this guy far longer than he's known you.

    Is there any possibility of you and the best friend getting together and healing old wounds ? For Russell's sake ?

    If I were in Russell's shoes, I would hate to have to make a choice.

     
  • At 11/23/2007 3:57 AM, Blogger Mai said…

    hi thet! this is definitely off-topic pero be warned. I'm not sure if you aware na pero may nangongopya ng blog entries mo. Check this out: http://dongskyqt.blogspot.com/2007/10/filipinos-incompetent-health-workers.html

    Apparently, i think mga 3 kayo or more na kinokopyahan niya ng entries. The nerve! Talagang verbatimly copied! kainis!

     
  • At 11/23/2007 7:11 AM, Blogger Virginia said…

    how sad naman ate...

     
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